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More Than Love

March Workshop Postponed.

New dates coming.

We’ve made the decision to reschedule this event to allow more couples to join at the right time.

Thank you to everyone who showed interest and support.

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The approach

Why this works

Most relationship advice fails because it targets the mind. We work with the body's safety system — where real change happens.

Nervous system framework

Not surface communication tips. We work with the body's safety system to create lasting change.

Fully structured format

Every session is guided with clear intentions. No awkward silences, no improvisation.

Private partner exercises

All exercises are done privately between you and your partner. No group sharing.

Clear take-home tools

You leave with a practical integration plan and tools you can use in real life, long after the workshop.

Before you book

Is this for you?

This workshop is right for you if...

  • You love each other but feel stuck in repeating patterns
  • You want structured guidance, not therapy-style exposure
  • You want tools that actually work at home
  • You want to reconnect without pressure

This workshop is probably not for couples who...

  • Expect a silent spa retreat
  • Want simple communication tips
  • Aren’t ready to be present together

Not sure? That's okay. Most couples feel nervous before they arrive. This workshop is designed for exactly that.

Sound familiar?

You love each other.
But you keep missing each other.

And lately it's felt like...

The same fight, different day
Shutdown, silence, walking on eggshells
One pursues, the other disappears
You're "fine" but not connected
Intimacy feels strained or pressured
Resentment quietly building
Not feeling chosen when it matters most

The hardest part?

You don't want to lose each other. You just don't know how to stop the cycle.

The truth beneath rupture

Rupture isn't the end. It's a nervous system moment—when your body says "This doesn't feel safe." When the body doesn't feel safe, love gets buried under survival. Protection over presence. Defense over softness. Distance over intimacy.

A different approach

You don't need more communication tips.

What most couples try:

  • "Talk nicer"
  • "Communicate better"
  • "Stop being so sensitive"
  • "Stop shutting down"
  • "Stop overreacting"

The real issue is underneath.

Your nervous system doesn't respond to logic. It responds to safety.

So if your body feels threatened, you will defend, attack, shut down, disconnect, go cold, go quiet, go numb, or go into control.

Not because you don't love your partner. But because your body is trying to protect you.

More Than Love teaches couples how to stop surviving each other...

and start feeling safe enough to be real again.

Why this format

Designed for real life

We know life is busy.
Work, children, travel, and logistics can make multi-day events hard to commit to.

More Than Love is now a focused Saturday workshop — designed to deliver depth without overwhelming your schedule.

One powerful day
Clear structure
Real tools you can use immediately

What you'll learn

In one day, everything shifts.

This isn't about being perfect. This is about learning how to return.

Recognize survival vs personality

Learn to see when it's your nervous system responding, not your true self or your partner's character.

Understand what's beneath

Discover what's really happening beneath conflict, withdrawal, criticism, or emotional distance.

Identify your pattern

Name your relationship pattern—pursue/withdraw, critic/defend, shutdown/explosion—and learn to interrupt it.

Regulate during conflict

Learn to regulate your body during conflict so you stop saying things you don't mean.

Practice real repair

Master repair that actually restores connection—not just apologies, but true attunement.

Create emotional safety

Build the kind of emotional safety that deepens trust and allows intimacy to flourish.

Your guides

Meet Darci & Brandon

Darci and Brandon Bourke holding hands outdoors, looking at each other warmly

Darci & Brandon Burke are transformation coaches, partners, and living proof that love deepens when safety is restored.

They didn't arrive here through theory or perfection—but through the fire. Through breakdowns, misattunement, survival patterns, and the slow, humbling work of learning how to feel safe in their own bodies and with each other again.

What they discovered changed everything:

most couples aren't failing because they don't love each other— they're stuck in nervous system survival.

Through years of personal healing, somatic work, and relational repair, Darci and Brandon learned how to create safety, regulate conflict, and rebuild connection from the inside out. Not by fixing each other—but by meeting themselves first.

Today, they guide couples who are committed to more than "getting by." Couples who want depth, honesty, intimacy, and real repair. Couples who know love isn't enough without safety—and are ready to build both.

Their work is grounded, embodied, and deeply human.

No performance. No bypassing. No surface-level tools.

Just the return to presence, truth, and the kind of connection that can hold real life.

Get to know us better before the workshop

Featured Podcast

Safe to Be Seen

Deep conversations about nervous system safety, relationships, and what it really takes to feel seen by your partner.

Listen on Apple Podcasts

Questions

Frequently asked questions

This is just the beginning.

More Than Love will be returning with future workshop dates and additional formats.

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