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Relationship Transformation Guidance

More ThanLove.

A private couples coaching experience that rewires your relationship at the nervous system level — so you stop cycling through the same patterns and finally build something that lasts.

Sound Familiar?

You love each other. But you keep missing each other.

And lately it's felt like…

The same fight, different dayShutdown, silence, walking on eggshellsOne pursues, the other disappearsYou're 'fine' but not connectedIntimacy feels strained or pressuredResentment quietly buildingNot feeling chosen when it matters most

“You don't want to lose each other. You just don't know how to stop the cycle.”

You don't need more communication tips.

What most couples try

  • Talk nicer
  • Communicate better
  • Stop being so sensitive
  • Stop shutting down
  • Stop overreacting

The real issue is underneath

Your nervous system doesn't respond to logic. It responds to safety. So if your body feels threatened, you will defend, attack, shut down, disconnect, go cold, go quiet, or go into control. Not because you don't love your partner. But because your body is trying to protect you.

More Than Love helps couples stop surviving each other… and start feeling safe enough to be real again.

The Program

A Nervous System–Based Couples Transformation Experience

This is for the couple who knows there's more — not more fixing, not more talking in circles, but more depth, more truth, and more connection that actually holds. It's not a communication problem. It's a pattern your nervous systems are running, and until that shifts, nothing else will.

Identity Shifting

Who you are being in the relationship determines everything. We change the pattern at the root.

Rupture & Repair

Not avoiding conflict — but learning how to move through it without disconnection.

Meeting Each Other's Triggers

Understanding what's actually happening underneath the reaction… and how to respond instead of repeat.

Masculine & Feminine Dynamics

Restoring polarity, safety, and leadership so both partners can land in their natural expression.

When the Past is Running the Present

Rewiring the imprints that keep pulling you back into the same cycles.

Intimacy

Emotional. Physical. Energetic. Not forced — but felt.

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Your Guides

Meet Darci & Brandon

Darci & Brandon Burke are transformation coaches, partners, and living proof that love deepens when safety is restored. They didn't arrive here through theory or perfection — but through the fire. Through breakdowns, misattunement, survival patterns, and the slow, humbling work of learning how to feel safe in their own bodies and with each other again.

Through years of personal healing, somatic work, and relational repair, Darci and Brandon learned how to create safety, regulate conflict, and rebuild connection from the inside out. Not by fixing each other — but by meeting themselves first.

Their work is grounded, embodied, and deeply human. No performance. No bypassing. No surface-level tools. Just the return to presence, truth, and the kind of connection that can hold real life.

What they discovered changed everything: most couples aren't failing because they don't love each other — they're stuck in nervous system survival.

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The Process

How This Works

  1. 01

    Submit your $300 deposit

    This secures your spot and begins the intake process for your relationship transformation container.

    Your deposit is applied toward your total investment.

  2. 02

    Complete the relationship application

    You'll answer intentional questions about your patterns, disconnection cycles, nervous system dynamics, and the relationship you deeply desire to create together.

  3. 03

    Schedule your initial intake session

    Before we ever meet, we will already have deep insight into your relationship dynamic, survival patterns, and where your connection is getting stuck.

  4. 04

    Receive a personalized roadmap

    We come into your first session prepared — with clarity, direction, nervous system insight, and a plan to help you begin rewriting the story of your relationship.

No surface-level conversations. No wasting time trying to figure it out.

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More Than Love — Application

After submitting your deposit, complete this application. We'll review it before your intake session so we arrive fully prepared.

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Basic Information

The Relationship

Nervous System + Emotional Safety

Vision + Transformation

Readiness

11. Are both of you willing to take responsibility for the patterns you bring into the relationship and actively participate in change?

Investment + Commitment

13. Are you both prepared emotionally, energetically, and financially to invest in support for your relationship if it feels aligned?

Final Question